It’s been nearly a year and a half since LazyDay published my first two books. Two more have followed, and I signed a contract for a fifth one recently. Friends and strangers both have congratulated me on having a best seller and there are a fewfrequently asked questions I’d like to answer now in print.
The first is, How do you come up with so many stories?
Hmmmm.How to answer … In short, they’re just there. I know that sounds cliché, but it’s how my brain works. I can be eating dinner in a restaurant or walking to my car after running an errand and see someone or something that begins to form into a skeletal plot. I may play with the idea awhile, until it’s grown large enough to begin writing, or I may just jot down the basis of the idea in a notebook I always carry with me. I’m rarely NOT thinking of writing my next story or how to continue with the project I’m currently working on. I can’t help myself. It’s how my brain works. Whenever I find a couple of minutes free – it could be while I’m waiting for a friend to join me for lunch, or while I await my turn at the doctor’s office, or even while I’m waiting for sleep to come – who needs to count sheep? I prefer to plot. I never go anywhere without a notebook to begin or continue brainstorming.To date, I’ve written between twenty and thirty novels, all romance. Few are ready to be published yet and will require extensive editing before they are, but ideas are so far, not a problem.
Second: How long did it take me to write my first book?
Funny story, that. Would you believe over twenty years? I began writing when I was still a kid, but I never finished anything. Writing a book is a hell of a commitment to make, especially when you’re like most people – like me – and write whenever you can fit it in. I work full time, plus teach a night class at the local university, plus have two kids, a husband in declining health, blah, blah, blah. After beginning that first novel which I never finished, I pushed the dream aside and got busy with living my life.
But I never forgot the dream.
Whenever people asked me what my greatest goal in life was, the answer always involved writing, getting published. No, I never forgot the dream, but neither did I do anything about making it a reality until a couple of years ago. What happened, you ask? What earth shattering event forced me to work toward making my dreams into reality? Several things were going on at the time, but really, one stands out as the main catalyst.
In a word … menopause.Early onset menopause at that.
Yes, my friends, it’s true. I went from being a relaxed, content, early to bed early to rise type person to a stressed out, freaked out night owl. No matter what I did, I could not seem to sleep at night until well after midnight most of the time. Rather than just lay there thinking about the job that didn’t satisfy me, my parents and husband who all faced serious health issues, or just how miserable I felt, I decided to use the time to write. It became my medicine, my hope, and my escape. In short, it became my coping mechanism.
At the same time, my niece began writing, and I thought, wow … I wish I’d run with it at such an early age. But hell, better late than never, right? I started cranking out book after book. I’d get started on one and just keep on working it until the first draft was finished, and by then, I was ready to begin another story. Although my life continued to challenge me on a daily basis, I found that living vicariously through my heroines proved therapeutic and even inspiring.
My initial goal was simply to write an entire book, start to finish. My secondary goal was to submit a manuscript for publication. Sure, I hoped someone would actually take me up on it, but if nobody ever did, I knew I could be satisfied with knowing that at least I’d tried. Mostly, I didn’t want to look back on my life and wonder what might have been. I figured if I did ever manage to get published, it would be icing on the cake.
Damn, was that icing sweet! When I got the acceptance for both books I’d submitted to LazyDay, I was pleasantly shocked. One of the books they published was the first of a trilogy, and LazyDay ended up signing the other two shortly after the initial books they published to complete the trilogy.
Once that happened, I decided I really wanted to concentrate on my writing and try to improve. I’d had no formal training, and I didn’t really know my way around the business. The same niece I mentioned earlier had also been published by now and wanted to use me as a guinea pig for structuring college level courses in creative writing, which she planned on teaching in the near future. She was a great teacher.
I learned about head hopping, passive vs. active voice, and the hero’s journey, among many other things. I’d submit a chapter, and she’d brutally critique it. I ate it up and asked for more. She made me a much better writer, so the brutality was much appreciated. I look back at those first published efforts, and I see such a positive growth between then and now. I owe her much and plan to dedicate one of my books to her in the future, (the same one she brutally critiqued, of course).
Question number three: What advice would I give aspiring novelists?
I like this one. I’m a nurturing person who likes to encourage and help others, so it’s a pleasure to answer. First of all, if you want to write, then write, for God’s sake. Don’t wait as long as I did, and don’t wait for menopause! Now is the perfect time with this new ebook adventure the world has embraced. All the major publishing houses have added ebooks to their offerings, as well as many new houses who specialize in ebook publishing, and they’re hungry for new authors. Did you know Amazon sells more ebooks than traditional books? It’s not just a passing fad, I feel sure. If ever the time was right to enter into the world of writing, it’s now, now, now! To borrow Nike’s phrase, JUST DO IT!
If you’re serious enough to put your stories on paper, be brave enough to submit them for publication. If you can take the attitude I took and consider getting published as icing, that’s great. That way, there’s no way you can lose. I was rejected twice by other publishing houses before LazyDay picked me up. I’ll always hold them in my heart of hearts for taking a chance and giving me a chance to fulfill my fondest life’s goal and dream.
In less than two years, I’ve gone from aspiring, dreaming author to an Amazon best seller, and I’m only getting started. I still have modest goals, and I continue to reach for them. Would I like to make a living through my writing? Damn straight I would, and there’s no reason I can’t continue to work toward that, but in the meantime, I’m thoroughly enjoying the journey. If I never make it to the New York Times best sellers list, so be it, but no one can take away the fact that I not only reached my goal of finishing an entire book, but I got published – four times and counting!
I have a lot to do yet and a lot to learn. My niece and favorite editor tells me the people in my books are too nice, they fall in love too soon, and my villains aren’t scary or mean enough. Can I help it that in my world I like everyone to be nice? Yes. I can. I need more complicated plots and more believable characters and a dozen other things I have to improve on, but you know what? I rarely head hop anymore, and I nearly always write in active voice, rather than passive now. I’m growing, and I’m making progress.
Most importantly, I’m have a friggin’ blast doing it!






